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Hey there wonderful people! Welcome back, once again. What a huge couple of weeks I’ve had – it’s been fantastic, but full-on, and I’ll have a bit more on that later.

Right now, I wanna keep delving into some kink and BDSM stuff, this time focusing mostly on safety (emotional and physical) and consent. Last time, I gave you a brief outline on making connections to the kink community, and creating a support base in which you can be a little more open about your desires, and learn more about them. So when you connect with someone and decide to get into some kink play, here’s some things to keep in mind, regardless of whether your dominating or submissive in the situation.


- Negotiate Clear Boundaries: Consenting to generally kinky fun is a bit of a beginner mistake, even if you’ve connected with someone you share kinks with. Kink and BDSM cover so much territory that it’s important to be clear about the activities you’re keen to engage in, and the things that could be triggering, or should be outright avoided. These desires and limits can change and grow as we do, so never think you’re restricting yourself by not doing ALL THE THINGS. Start with the fetishes you’re both super enthusiastic about, and build a solid foundation on which you can start setting some riskier scenes.


- Enthusiastic Consent: This is the form of consent I encourage all of you to practice. There is very little room for coercion or manipulation because it comes from a place of authentic eagerness, curiosity and excitement. When everyone in a kink scene is consensually engaged and excited about the prospects it can make for a pretty carefree fun time.


- Risk Awareness and Mitigation: Kink and BDSM are inherently risky – that’s part of what attracts many of us towards these activities. It adds another layer of adrenaline and sensation to our sex lives, and gives another layer of power and passion to relationships. Before you indulge in your particular fetish it’s good to get an idea of what the risks might be, and if there’s anything in your personal history that could limit or increase your risks. Whatever risks might be involved – some common ones include broken skin, bruising, caught restraints, hyperventilation – be sure to have care products ready to go once play has finished. We’ll cover this more in aftercare.


- Physical and Emotional Safety: You’ve done all the prep – found a willing and trustworthy partner, negotiated limits, and set up the required space. Even so, things don’t seem right and fun. Your enthusiasm has dwindled. Firstly, don’t think your consent is an undoable spell. If things aren’t feeling good, just call a stop. If your gut has been right about your chosen partner, there will likely be room to chat through any triggers, or problems, if that’s something you’d like to do. Know where the First Aid kit is – just in case!


- Aftercare: As the name suggests, aftercare is the activity that happens after the kink session. Like an intense fuck session, kink can be exhausting – so many feelings, so much stimulation, so much endurance. Aftercare acknowledges the intense connection BDSM allows, offering space in which to ground after what can be such a full-on time. Aftercare differs for everyone, and some people don’t even want it at all. It can include tending to wounds, cuddles and snacks, or a quiet chat to debrief. Just like the play itself, the aftercare is negotiated by the players involved and depends on what they want or need from each other.


Hopefully that’s a bit helpful! If there’s anything you do want to know, don’t hesitate to shoot me an email. I’m here to share with YOU so I’d happily hear your thoughts.

So what can subscribers look forward to over the next couple of weeks? You can be assured of three content drops per week – an explicit photoset, an exclusive interview, and of course, a hot and messy video full of cum and goodness.


This week, look out for more wet and slippery fuckery with the angelic Laney Day and the mesmerising Marina Lee.

If you follow my socials, you may have worked out I took a little trip. Coming up I’ll share with you some of my time spent in Berlin! I’m still in the process of unpacking – mostly my thoughts – but I can’t wait to let you all know how exciting it was to spend some time in one of the world’s most porn-friendly cities.


Wishing you all a fabulous fortnight,


Until next time,


Charlie x



Hello again, my wonderful crew! Whether you’re sweating it up in the southern hemisphere Summer, or getting cosy in the wintery north, I hope you’re all settling into the new year and enjoying all the juicy content you can.


For me the new year has brought with it some fucking amazing talent, and the opportunity to make some incredibly unique content, some of which will be available to subscribers over the coming weeks. It’s gorgeous stuff, and gets pretty kinky. I’m excited for you to see it.


Sometimes I wonder how often people watch one of my scenes and suddenly decide it’s something they’d like to try. I know I definitely got some of my fantasies or desires unexpectedly – just seeing someone else have the experience. I think that’s part of the reason I like having this blog; it’s space I can use to encourage or inform you on how to possibly try some of these things in a safe and comfortable way.


Doing so much kink and BDSM play – both professionally and personally – and being someone who loves exploration, this week I just wanted to gently encourage those considering bringing more kink play to their life. Many people aren’t in the position to be open about their fetishes, and some aren’t even aware that they have them (or maybe thought they were alone with them). So for those just beginning to dip in their toes into the kink world, I would love to offer these suggestions.


Before you even start playing, you need a partner you can trust, and that’s regardless of whether you’re interested in a Dominant or submissive role. You need to know the person you’re playing with will respond to your needs, and/or communicate their needs to you.

As we know with online meet-ups, it’s always better to meet in public. There are often casual meets in cafes or pubs where kinksters get together in an everyday space just to chat and catch up (They’re called ‘munches’). There’s no BDSM gear or outfits – it’s all very ‘vanilla’. But it’s a really great space to meet up with other kinksters you’ve met online in a very safe and supportive space.


Join an online community. Social media offers a few options – there are kink themed pages on Facebook you can like, or BDSM peeps on Insta or Twitter. And then there’s a couple of platforms specific to the BDSM and fetish communities, the biggest of which is Fetlife. Online communities may not be perfect – pages on the mainstream platforms are always of threat of some sort of ban or suspension, and Fetlife has some navigation issues – but they can also help you meet people, learn things, find events in your area, and potentially inspire your kinky play.


One thing to make sure of is that you find someone passionate about consent and safety. And come to think of it, that will probably be the topic for my next blog. Both are so connected to a great kink experience, so I think it’s really important to discuss it. It might come sooner than you think!


Speaking of cumming sooner than you think… Very fucking HOT content!!! Over the next couple of weeks, you’ll find out exactly why I’ve been so orgasmic over my first time shooting with the adorably wicked Marina Lee, and why Laney Day was the perfect addition to this slippery, double-scissoring sisterhood.


Fuck! Things get so sexy messy, it’s a total treat. And of course, it wouldn’t be a solid fortnight unless my arse was getting fondled, fingered or fucked – several times, by several people. Well subscribers, over the next two weeks, you will see it all. Videos, interviews, and explicit photosets – three uploads a week, all for you.


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Get on it for your chance to see some of the hottest independent adult film, starring some of Australia’s most fantastic talent, THREE times a week. You know you want it.


Wishing you all the best until next time,


Charlie x